When children are involved, a divorce is no longer just a legal filing—it’s the creation of a new family structure. Understanding the NJ divorce process can help lower the temperature of a high-stress situation and ensure your children’s best interests remain the priority.
If you are considering filing for divorce in New Jersey, here is the roadmap of what to expect.
1. The Complaint for Divorce
The process begins when one spouse (the Plaintiff) files a "Complaint for Divorce" with the Superior Court. In New Jersey, most couples file under "Irreconcilable Differences," which is a no-fault ground that allows for a more private and less adversarial process.
2. Establishing Temporary Orders (Pendite Lite)
Divorce doesn't happen overnight. While the case is pending, the court can issue temporary orders regarding:
- Child custody and visitation schedules.
- Child support and alimony payments.
- Who remains in the marital home.
3. The Case Management Conference
Early in the process, you and your attorney will meet with a judge to set a schedule for "Discovery"—the phase where both parties exchange financial and personal information relevant to the case.
4. Child Custody and Parenting Plans
New Jersey courts strongly favor "the best interests of the child." This usually involves a Parenting Plan that outlines where the child lives (physical custody) and who makes major decisions (legal custody). At Wiley Lavender, we prioritize mediation and negotiation to keep these sensitive decisions out of a stranger’s hands and in yours.
5. Final Judgment of Divorce
Once all issues (assets, support, and custody) are settled—either through a Matrimonial Settlement Agreement or a trial—the judge will sign a Final Judgment of Divorce.
Why Experience Matters
A divorce is a marathon, not a sprint. You need a legal team that offers direct access and decades of experience navigating the Middlesex County court system.
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